Well its finally happened, I just got married. Who would of guessed I would have found the perfect girl. She truly is amazing, a real beautiful soul.
As I said in my last post It’s never to late to find god we are both christians and I really think it has helped us already in our marriage and with our planning for the future. We have both been dealing with a lot of stress over the last few months and really ever since we first met.
Becca is only in Australia on a working holiday visa and is due to go home in April. We have been working as a team tirelessly to make that a story we tell our children one day, a story that never came true. ” you know kids, me and your mum well it nearly didn’t happen and you know that means you nearly didn’t happen”.
We have been dealing with a wedding, me converting to Christianity, language barriers, lawyers, immigration, car crashes, my self destructive nature, work life and the fact we live over and hour apart from each other.
They say love conquers all but thats not entirely true I believe love and god conquers all. Because we both have a strong faith in god, it’s brought us together more and more everyday. No hurdle has been too high for us to jump because we both have faith, hope and gods love.
Aside from the hardship of it all, we have been so in love and my world is filled with joy every time I see her smile. Nothing makes me happier than watching her with my son, they just click so well and she truly has taken on the role of a step mum with so much passion and respect its so beautiful to watch. she loves to put him to sleep at night, she truly cares for my boy, reminding me of things about him and things we can all do together as a family.
For the first time in a long time nearly 15 years my heart has softened, I’ve become a better father and a better person in general. My soul feels reborn and my sins washed clean. I for once in my life feel ok about where I’ve come from and the choices I’ve made. I finally forgive the people that have wronged me and I’m ready to make steps in my new life with a clear clean conscience.
With my beautiful wife by my side I feel I can achieve anything.
Hard to believe I’m so positive about my new life, considering 3 days before I got married I had a really bad car crash I wrecked my car I still owe nearly 17k for. I lost my licence for 12 months and lost my job due to no licence. I’m still positive our future is going to be bright. I’m truly lucky to be alive.
|Our wonderful adopted Christian family, thank you and god bless you all.|
The old me would have been freaking, complaining about “whoa is me, my life sucks” but I honestly see it as a blessing, things could have been worse.
People have been asking me how is married life treating you? I honestly can’t find anything to complain about. My wife is amazing, so supportive, so loving, so kind, everything about her is done with love in her heart, she is one of a kind.
I’ve not heard one bad word cross her lips. It’s really nice to create a home with someone that is pure of heart, its so infectious. It makes you want to be a better person, not feel bad about not being good enough.
As you can see I’m in love with this beautiful woman, she is my world. I pray everyday that immigration will see we are truly in love. I have hope and have faith that god will help her stay in Australia.
These past for months have seen many ups and downs, but boy do I feel like the luckiest man on earth. I have GOD, my beautiful wife and my charming little son all of which make me stand tall and proud. I feel so blessed to be alive. I’m just so positive everything I do from this day forward will be fruitful.
God bless everyone that reads this, have a wonderful day.